Adolescents and children who are still learning how to navigate connection, identity, and emotions are especially prone to these risks.

Emotional Dependence & Attachment

Adolescents and children are naturally susceptible to intense feelings and relational pull. Because AI companions are

• Always supportive

• Never complicated

• Never rejecting

They can become a substitute for real friendships, which are essential for social growth. Over time, this may

• Reduce motivation to build real relationships

• Make real-world social situations feel harder

• Create emotional withdrawal or secrecy

Loneliness Reinforcement

AI may temporarily soothe loneliness—but it doesn’t actually fix it. For youth, especially those who are struggling with loneliness, the illusion of friendship may deepen isolation over time.

Persuasion & Emotional Influence

AI companions adapt to a child’s emotions and preferences.

This can lead to

• Reinforcement of negative thinking

• Subtle shifts in beliefs or behaviors

• Guidance that sounds caring but lacks human wisdom

Even well-designed AI can unintentionally shape identity or influence decision-making.

Data & Privacy

For an AI to feel “close,” it must collect details:

• Feelings

• Personal stories

• Habits

• Social struggles

This raises huge questions about data safety and how these interactions may be used commercially. Be aware that these companies generally own any data your child shares with them and they can use their data almost any way they choose.

Skill Displacement

If a child turns to an AI companion for comfort, conflict navigation, or emotional regulation, they may not develop crucial relational skills such as:

• Tolerating imperfection

• Building real friendships

• Managing conflict

• Understanding boundaries

• Practicing courage and vulnerability

None of these risks require fear—but they do require awareness.